What Makes Divorce Painful? While every divorce is different, in almost every case it is denying reality and holding on to negativity that hurts. Rita Magalde’s gentle guidance, heartfelt encouragement, and practical advice based on her own experience shows how anyone can let go of the pain and get through the process with a minimum of trauma and a maximum of sanity, regardless of the specific circumstances. Whether already divorced, in the process of divorce, or considering a divorce, you will find Rita’s journey from Mrs. to Ms. most helpful in healing scars, making decisions that are best for you, and plotting your own course to a new, re-energized, and joyfully productive life.